Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Basement Evolution
As previously mentioned, Jonathan and I went nose to the grindstone from July through the first week of September and finally finished our basement. I say finally because we’ve been talking about doing this since we got married. And for once, I have pictures to share that will show the evolution of what is now our great family room and 2nd full bathroom in the basement.

I bought our house in July of 2003 – a few months after Jonathan and I met and 9 months before our first date. Here is what the basement looked like the day before I closed on the house.

This was the view going down into the basement.





This was the best view of the rec room that you could get because of the huge hearth and wood burning fire place there. Note the LOVELY wood paneling on the wall. That wasn’t the cheap kind of paneling either. When you rubbed your hand across the wall, you could feel the pseudo ridges of the would-be wood.



I just thought you’d like to see a close up view of this thing. Yes, I did have to pay extra on the home owners insurance because of that stupid wood burning stove that was never used. Strangely enough, we did manage to sell it to a family from rural OH for $100. They ONLY use wood burning stoves to heat their house – Seriously!


In the back corner of the basement, there was this bar area. It was dark and scary, and the ceiling was so low!



And this… this was the small half bath that was in the basement.




Fast forward then to the Fall of 2005 when Jonathan decided to gut the entire basement. The idea of taking a sledge hammer to the gross old basement was fun… until he got about 2 minutes into it and realized just how hard and messy it was going to be to complete this. He did the entire demo and clean- up himself. Sadly, I wasn’t much help with that part of the basement project.

I guess I was really impressed with the hearth demo. I took so many pictures of it being torn down.
Here’s a great picture of Jonathan in action taking out the walls and plumbing to that gross old bar in the back corner.

And here’s what it looked like once he finished demo and clean up. He even set up a little man den for himself in the corner when it was all over.


After 2 grueling, nearly non-stop months of work (and I did pull my weight on this part of the basement evolution project!) and some help and labor referrals from our neighbor, here’s what our basement looks like now - Sept. 2008

Down the stairs...
The TV is on the wall where the hearth and wood burning stove used to be!
No pictures on the wall yet, but we do have a great new sectional!
Another angle of the furished portion of the room
And here's the second bathroom that we always wanted but never had!
Check on the tile! It's my pride and joy of this project


Monday, September 08, 2008
What I did for summer vacation... by Jen H.
No, I haven't left the business world to teach. And no, my Fortune 15 employer didn't become so concerned with employee work/life balance and productivity that it decided to give its employees the summer off. When you live in the midwest and the long, gray winter finally ends, you have a greater appreciation for the warm, sunny summer and everyday really feels like a bit of a vacation. Because I have a bit of free time tonight and actually have the urge to blog, I thought I would write a bit about our busy and productive summer.

We kicked off our summer this year with a trip to Alabama for the week following Memorial Day. It was a much needed trip as I had not been home since the fall -- the longest I've ever gone without a visit to Tuscaloosa since moving to Ohio. We celebrated Dad's birthday with "Birthday in a Box all the way from Cincinnati" -- translate as "a cooler full of 12 pints of Graeter's ice cream packed on dry ice that made the trip down to Alabama for a celebration". We spent the week piddling around -- hanging by the pool, taking the "neices and nephews" swimming, joking and having fun with Dad & Babs, and riding the John Deere Gator. We got to catch up with my cousin Brandy and her husband and to see the new house they were building. We even had our first ever adult-only outing with David and Christie (seriously, we tried to think about it and the 4 of us had never been out without the kids before) to Kozy's - a great little local restaurant. After such a great visit, our time ended on a sad note as our friend Drew (who was an usher in our wedding) lost his wife Amy to cancer that Wednesday, and Jonathan made a quick exit from AL down to FL to be with Drew during this difficult time.

After returning home from AL, we needed a bit of an aviation fix. The following Sunday, we rented a Piper J-7 Cub (since our airplane is still out of commission after being geared up by our partner in April) and flew over to Lee Bottom Field outside of Madison, IN for "Sinful Sunday". Lee Bottom Field is a grass strip runway along a river in southeast Indiana. During the summer, it's home to Sinful Sunday the first Sunday of every month. Hundreds of people fly in and land there to look at all of the other small airplanes that have landed there and to eat sloppy joes and ice cream sundaes -- get it? sinful sundaes? Ha! It was unbelieveably hot, but it was a lot of fun and there were a lot of beautiful old airplanes there. It's always fun for Jonathan and I to get to fly a Piper Cub together too since he tried to impress me way back when we were dating by taking me up in a Piper Cub on floats in FL and landing it on a little lake with a restaurant where we had grouper sandwiches together.

Only a week later, we were excited to have Jonathan's mom and dad in for the 3rd annual Father's Day weekend extravaganza - also known as the H. Men Go to the Kentucky Speedway for a Race While the H. Women Do Something a Little More Lady Like. As always, the guys enjoyed themselves. I would say more if I could, but I've managed to go 3 and 1/2 years of marriage without having to go to the KY Speedway with them, and I'm trying to keep it that way. Mrs. H. and I went to see "Jersey Boys" at the Aronoff which turned out to be quite a treat. As always, good times with the in-laws.

By the time that July rolled around, we had made the decision to commit 100% to finally finishing our basement. So July 4th, we hit it hard core with the help our our neighbor Randy (a.k.a "Redneck Randy"). Randy works in construction and is a whiz at all things related to building, especially finishing basements. He came over, and he and Jonathan spent the afternoon framing up the basement with metal studs. We were on our way! It took us from 7/4 to 9/4, but we got our basement rec room done and a full bathroom put into the basement doing most of the work ourselves with the help of a few of Randy's construction buddies here and there. We're thrilled with the results. I'll dedicate and entire post to that, though, later this week.

In mid-July I was surprised with a visit from my good friend Melissa. Melissa is the best friend that I've made at work in my 6 1/2 years with the company. She's someone that I just clicked with from day one and we were inseparable... until they transferred her to the Philadelphia area. That stunk. Luckily, though, she still has to come to town from time to time for work, and she usually stays with us so that we get to spend a little more time together. While we both worked well passed midnight the 2 nights she was here, it was great to be able to spend a little time together. She's getting married in Denver next week, and we'll be headed out there for the event. :)

The end of July is Jonathan's favorite time of the year. EAA Oshkosk week in Oshkosk, Wisconsin (that's "Westconsin" for my mother in law). Jonathan and his dad spent 8 days and nights in a pop-up camper in WI with several hundred thousand other aviation enthusiasts. It sounds a little crazy even to me, but it's something that they love and do together each year. I think it's a great blessing that they make that time to go for a week just the two of them.

After Oshkosh, it was time for Jonathan's second favorite event of the year -- Drum Corp International World Championships. Yes, it is just as dorky as it sounds. 40K people in a football stadium cheering wildly for marching band on steriods. It's a cult I tell you. Our good friends Justin and Jenn are also Drum Corp enthusiasts. This year, we went in and bought tickets together for the entire event (nevermind that they cost an arm and a leg and I almost killed Jonathan when I found out that we owed Jenn & Just $300 for our share of the tickets - not that we owed them half of $300!!!!!) Justin and Jenn went to quarter finals on Thursday night. Jonathan and I went to semi-finals on Friday night, and Justin & Jonathan went to finals on Saturday night. Each night was interesting. I was acosted by a band parent who sitting one seat down from us who was upset that I didn't give her son's corp a standing ovation. (By the way, her son was the tuba player in the corp that tripped and fell on the field during their performance. There's nothing quite as funny as a crowd of drum corp enthusiasts all gasping at the same time when one of their own goes down on the field. I did not laugh mind you. I kept it all inside. I was quite proud of myself.) I did thoroughly enjoy the show of the Corp that our friend Justin is an alumnus of. And I clearly have good taste because that is the Corp that ended up taking home the world championship trophy on the final night when Justin and Jonathan were there.

Just a week later, we got a visit from Jonathan's sister Leslie who is now living in Ft. Campbell, KY - just 4 1/2 hours south. She came up to hang out with us and to go to a concert with Jonathan on Sunday afternoon. She came by herself for the first time as her husband is now serving in Iraq. Little did she know that when she arrived we'd be putting her to work. Bless her heart - she helped us put an entire coat of paint on our newly hung and primed dry wall in the basement. I almost didn't have the heart to tell her a week later that the color was entirely wrong and that we had to repaint the entire thing a different color (a la the dining room painting debacle of July 2006). Anyway, we had a great time hanging with her in our incredibly messy, dusty, under-construction house that weekend. Oh, and Leslie got a bonus - she left with a new favorite song that weekend. "In the ciiiiiittttaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy...." - that's just for you, Sister in Law.

To wrap up his own crazy summer, Dad came for a visit for a few days the next to last week of August. It was just he and I this time as Jonathan was working. And though he probably regretted coming, he was quite a life-saver for me. To keep our basement completion on schedule (date being driven by the fact that our new sectional was being delivered on 9/4), we had to 1) finish all painting in the rec room and bathroom - including ceiling painting - 2 coats on everything, 2) grout and seal the tile I had laid on the bathroom floor, 3) pick out and install trim around the bathroom floor where the vanity and toilet were to be installed on 8/25, and 4) pick out and order carpet to be installed no later than 9/3. If my dad hadn't been here to help me, there is no way I could have gotten all that done by myself! Never mind that he also planted 6 rose of sharon bushes, and 4 crepe myrtles for me just for fun. We worked together and listened to oldies while we worked. And he seriously looked at me at one point and said "How do you know all of these songs?" I said "Because you listened to them!" Quite a vacation it turned out to for him, huh? I have to say - dads are the best!

Sounds like a lot already, I know, but we had one last hurrah to end our summer. I like to refer to it as the greatest weekend ever for the H's. Labor Day weekend, we flew ourselves down to Lawrenceville, GA which is right in the middle of Athens, GA and Atlanta, GA. At noon:thirty on Saturday, 8/30 we were in Samford Stadium on the campus of the University of Georgia to cheer on Jonathan's alma mater the Georgia Southern University Eagles (a Div. I-AA team) who were taking on the #1 team in the land. We met up with David & Christie - they in their black, us in our navy and white - to tour the UGA campus before the game and hang out a bit. Then we went our separate ways into the stadium where we were in 90 degree Georgia heat with 85% humidity and almost no clouds in the sky. We were the hottest and sweatiest I think we've ever been. And though GSU didn't pull the upset, we were proud that they managed to put 21 points on the board. We then hopped in our little HHR rental car (why can we never get away from PT Cruisers or HHRs when we rent cars?) and high-tailed it back to our hotel in Lawrenceville just in time for quick showers, changing into our crimson & white, grabbing Chick Fil A drive thu, and making it to the station to take the MARTA to the Georgia Dome in time to see Alabama take on Clemson in what was I am sure the best Alabama football game that I've been to since Alabama spanked Florida in Bryant Denny Stadium in 2005. It was so much fun. And then, we ended the weekend flying ourselves back to Cincinnati on a perfectly beautiful Sunday afternoon in September.

Overall, I'd say we had one of the best summers yet. Not to get too deep after a very surface-y description of our summer, I spent a lot of time this summer realizing just how blessed we are - I am. There were several more serious things that went on this summer that I didn't mention - family drama, cancer scans, losing loved one, etc. Through it all, though, what Jonathan and I kept saying to each other was just that we have so much to be thankful for. Frankly, we really have it very easy. It's scarey for me to put that down in print. Almost like, I think that by actually admitting it, I'm jinxing us -- that all of the sudden something really bad is going to happen. I think I need to admit it though. I think I need to be grateful everyday for the good and the blessings in our life and pray that the thankfulness and the good times would be burned on my heart and in my memory. To never forget where it comes from. And to know that even when the bad times come and that when things get hard, I still need to be thankful. I still need to be grateful, and I need to know that He is always good.


Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Dear Megan,

Here's to the inner circle...

Love,
Jen





Monday, April 07, 2008
I'm baaaa-aaaack

I don’t really have an excuse for my blogging hiatus. I can only say that the last 4-5 months have flown by. Life can be crazy. Here is a list of some of the things that I’ve been up to since I last posted:



  • I cooked and hosted my first Thanksgiving dinner

  • Mourned the loss of my maternal grandmother who was a really neat Christian lady

  • Had an awesome early Christmas at my in-laws house where I received a fabulous gardening cart as a gift

  • Cooked and hosted my first Christmas (and got a fabulous Kitchen Aid mixer from my dad)

  • Found out on a Friday in December that I was being moved to a new assignment at work and then the following Wednesday had to assume full responsibilities in that role (YIKES!)

  • Decided to become a runner and signed up to run my first 5 K as well as an 7.6mile leg of The Flying Pig marathon here in Cincinnati in May

  • Thoroughly enjoyed every minute of LOST with friends Jenn and Justin

  • Shoveled 10” of snow off of our front porch

  • Went on my 4th Caribbean cruise with my wonderful husband

  • Turned 28 in the Cayman Islands (on Seven Mile Beach to be exact)

  • Bought an airplane (a 1947 North American Navion to be exact)

  • Got the notice of my 10 year high school reunion

  • Celebrated my husband’s 31st birthday

  • Read 4 books include 3 in the Christian Fiction genre that were fantastic

  • Reconnected with one of my best friends after a period of “separation”

  • Ran my first 5K (in 33:59 – okay, so I’m no road runner, but it was my first race)



I’ve missed this outlet, so I’ll be returning on a more regular basis.


PS - Is there anyone out there who has a copy of the David Crowder Band CD “All that I can say” It’s from the late 90’s and is out of print, and David Crowder has confirmed that they will not be re-printing it. If anyone has it, can I borrow it?



Wednesday, November 07, 2007
Tag -- I'm it!
Well, I've been tagged by Anna so here are 8 random things about me.

1) I'm a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer about 2 months before my freshman year of college. Sometimes I feel guilty saying that because it wasn't absolutely the most horrendous thing I've ever been through. I had the easiest cancer to have if you have to have it. I mean, it wasn't exactly fun or anything. I had several surgeries and went through a form of radiation treatment. It's all clear now, though. I have to go every 18 months or so and get checked but other than that and the fact that I have to take a little pill everyday, it doesn't really affect my life. I consider myself to be quite lucky that 'thyroid' was the variety of cancer that I had.

2) One of the greatest compliments that I was ever paid during my teenage years that I still remember came from my youth minister, Jon, when I was in jr. high. He remarked that he was impressed that I was such a young lady to have been raised in an all male household. I'm sure that he never knew how much that meant to me or how much that stays with me even today. You see, from the age of 6, I was raised by my father. My mother was really not a part of my life from that point on other than to make a random entrance from time to time that really caused more harm that good. This made me a little paranoid about not being a real girl or even about being tomboy. No offense to those of you who are/were tomboys, but that was something I never wanted to be. I wanted to be as feminine as possible. It gave me great confidence to hear that from Jon.

3) I'm a singer. That's not news to those of you that I grew up with, but for anyone who has known me since my migration to the north, it may come as quite a shock. I was always in choirs and ensembles growing up. I sang at events and in worship groups for church. In fact I started college on a voice scholarship (I wanted to be a high school choir director). It's something I don't get to do often now because 1) we go to an instrumental church and strangely enough, there's less opportunity and 2) I've been out of practice for so long I've lost confidence in my abilities. These days, my husband is the only person who hears me sing.

4) As my act of ultimate rebellion in college, I got my naval pierced. My sophomore year of college, I went to a local tattoo parlor and got a pierced. I'm not sure if my dad ever saw it or not. If he did, he never said anything. The funniest thing was that at the time, my 3 yr old "niece" announced it to her dad by saying "JenJen has a rwing in hwer belly" over and over again until he figured out what she was saying and freaked out. Ah, the old days! Anyway, I now have a permanent little indention just above my naval. No, I don't still have it. As soon as we got engaged, Jonathan made me take it out. He thought it was trashy. Ha! He'd die to know that I got it with half of the other girls from my college group at church.

5) Despite the fact that I have two of them, I do not like cats. I was raised a dog person and a dog person I shall be until I pass on from this life. My first cat, Piper, I got because I was lonely and needed a pet that didn't require a huge amount of maintenance. It turns out, he acts a like a dog rather than a cat. He's very lovey, often runs around the house with a tennis ball in his mouth playing fetch, and often gets wound up and barks and chases his tail. Our second cat, Chloe, we got so that Piper would have company when we went out of town. Frankly, Piper would rather go without the company. And Chloe, she acts just like I would expect a cat to -- scaredy, independent, and not snuggly. She's Jonathan's cat.


6) I really am looking forward to having kids in the next several years. (Please note that I said 'several' and that I am not making any type of announcement here.) And as excited as I am about the idea of being a mom and having a family, I don't think I'm interested in being a full time stay at home mom. I really love my career, and I like helping bring home the bacon. Sadly, I am afraid to admit this out loud because I feel like even as I type this that some people reading this will judge me and say that makes me a bad person. There are people in my family who have voiced very strong opinions on both sides of the fence. And from what my friends tell me, there seems to be a great divide between the working moms and the stay-at-home moms. Each group very judgemental of the other. Well, I do want to want to work less than full time when I have kids and I feel lucky that my company supports those kinds of decsions. Maybe as a part time stay-at-home/part-time working mommy I'll be able bridge the divide between the working and stay-at-home moms. That... or I'll have no friends at all because I'm somewhere in no man's land.


7) When I am at Alabama football games, my eyes well up when the team runs out onto the field. Yes, I do realize that this is about the stupidest thing you have ever heard. But actually, I've figured out that I get emotional whenever there's a large crowd anywhere cheering in agreement of the same thing. I just think it's a rare occasion in this day and age, that 93,000+ people can get behind the same thing. Though I do love football, it is a bit depressing that THAT is what 93,000 people are agreeing on.


8) I am just beginning training to run on a relay team for the 2008 Flying Pig Marathon in Cincinnati. This is a big step for me because, frankly, I am not a big fan of running. But, every year, the brand that I work on has 6-8 relay teams that run The Pig and every year, I get flack for not participating. I guess they finally wore me down. Really, though, I am doing it for the exercise. First, I'm doing a 5-K training plan followed by a local 5-K run. Then I'll do a 10-K training plan. There is no way though that anyone is getting me to run the whole thing. I just think that's nuts.

Okay, there. I've done it. Now, it's time for someone else to do it. I tag Sarah, Meredith, Sandra, Heidi, Jen, and Erin. Here are the rules:

1) Each "tagged" blogger posts on their own blog and entry with eight random facts/habits about themselves.
2) At the end the post, the "tagged" blogger needs to tag eight people of their own and list those names.
3) Leave the "tagged" bloggers a comment on their blogs telling them they’re tagged, and to read your blog.


Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Counting my blessings
Sometimes life is just good. That's the way I've felt for the last several months. When people ask me how things are or what's new, I don't really have a lot of exciting news to share and answer "Nothing really." But I answer with a smile because I am just at a point of contentment and that has given me a sense of joy.

For those who are interested, here are some of the things that have happened and are happening in my life. None of these things is particularly amazing (at least by most people's standards), but I feel the need to count my blessings because these are the things that are bringing me joy.

  • A year ago I began working with a girl at work named Melissa. She is the first true friend that I've made at work, and despite the fact that she's being transferred to Baltimore, I know that we've made a connection that is going to last.
  • Since May, I've traded in all but 1 TV show a week (Lost) to reinvest myself in books. I loved reading growing up, and I've returned to this passion.
  • For the past 2 spring seasons, I spent a lot of time working in the yard -- creating flower beds and planting. I've now got the front yard just the way I want it and am beginning on the backyard. Hooray for knockout roses!
  • I absolutely love my job. Though some days are frustrating, I love learning new skills that I can use in both my professional and personal life. I feel like my people skills have grown a lot in the past year.
  • Oh, football season! Why must it ever end? This past weekend, I got to see Alabama POUND Tennessee into the ground. Oh, it was beautiful. And I still get to go back for more in a little under 2 weeks.
  • My husband is hands down the most wonderful man on the planet. He treats me to "dippy cone dates" and makes me laugh like no one else. It sounds cliche but I truly love him more everyday.
  • In August, I was able to let my wall down and share some personal things with our small group. Ever since, I've felt a loyalty and connection with that group of people that I haven't experienced with church or a group from church in quite some time. That group is truly our family here.
  • My brother, Kyle, moved to Cincinnati in mid-Sept and has been staying with us. He and I have been able to get to know each other for the first time since childhood. He's intrigued by the fact that I cook and clean and do laundry because that's what adults do. I guess I am officially and adult now. :) It's great to show him what life is like outside of Tuscaloosa, Alabama.
  • In August, Jonathan came home one night with a book called Devotions for Couples by Patrick Morely. When we opened it up that night to begin, we flipped to the dedication page which read, "To Jen and John -- I dream that one day you will take up this book. Marriage is tough work. To enjoy the intimacy and pleasure God intends for married couples we must be vunerable and honest with each other." We were blown away -- like the book was written just for us. We've been reading it once or twice a week on the weeks that Jonathan is home. The time together is growing us.
  • There's a young lady at work that I love to be around named Lisa. She's asked me to teach her football. I've had her over to the house a few times to watch football and explain the game to her. Of course, I have her watching Alabama football, and so many Monday mornings I come into work after having been down to Alabama to see a game and she exclaims with a huge smile on her face, "How about that John Parker Wilson!?!?!" Lisa's energy and love of life is contagious. I hope there's something else I can teach her after football season because she's teaching me a lot about joy.

What blessings are you counting today?



Wednesday, September 26, 2007
UA Stolen Tickets Scam
My dad was one of the victims in this scam. His season tickets were never delivered by UPS because someone at UPS stole them. The University "made it right" by giving him replacement tickets, but you see, it's not really made right because the folks that stole them are selling them to people. Some they took to Need One Ticket and the others they are selling out on the quad before every game. So, every week, there are people in our seats and we have to have the ushers/police kick them out. It really puts you in great spirits just prior to kick off! According to a friend my dad has in the ticket office, this happened to SEVERAL of season ticket holders this season. In fact, in one case, it happened to people with seats in the Ivory Club!! A young couple bought those on the quad and then got up to the Ivory Club where they were promptly escorted out for having stolen tickets. They didn't take it so well really...

To Friends in Tuscaloosa: Beware of buying tickets from people standing outside the stadium or around the quad unless they are official ticket brokers (wearing the yellow license tag around their necks). You may just be buying someone's stolen tickets and you may spend the game standing on the spiral ramp rather than in an actual seat.


Are you two best friends or somethin'?
This is, of course, my very favorite time of the year. Football season – more specifically, Alabama football season. I grew up in Tuscaloosa, Alabama the home of the Alabama Crimson Tide, so football isn’t just a sport to me. It’s a religion. Just ask my husband who swears he’s going to have to leave the house on the Saturdays that we’re watching the games from home because I get too intense.

Luckily, he doesn’t have to leave me every Saturday because we’re fortunate enough to have season tickets through my dad who graciously buys enough seats each year for our entire family to be able to go together for as many games as we’re able to make the trip down for. Generally, this works out to be 3-4 games a year for us. This year as we looked at the calendar of games to determine which ones we wanted to go down for so that we could go ahead and purchase our airline tickets, we realized that there was one game that I really wanted to go to that Jonathan would not be able to make it down for – the Alabama/Georgia game.

And this is how it came to pass that I spent last weekend with one of my dearest friends, Megan, in my hometown of Tuscaloosa, Alabama, watching football, eating BBQ, hanging out with family, and just having a good ol’ down-home weekend in the south.

I have to admit. I have a hard time watching football games with girls. I always have. I’ve had one to many experiences of girlfriends wanting to TALK DURING THE GAME??? And not about the game or even about football… they just want to chat. When I was in college, I always did my best to sit with the guys at the game or at least the girls who I knew took it as seriously as I did. So, inviting a girlfriend down for the game was a bit of a risk for me.

I had no fear when it came to Megan, though. Megan is an Ohio native and thus an Ohio State fan. And not just a girl who says, “oh yeah, I like Ohio State”. She’s a hard core, no-talking-about-other-things-we-must-focus-on-the-game-because-if-we-don’t-we-won’t-win fan, and I love her for it.

We both took Friday off and flew down to Alabama early on Friday morning. I spent a portion of the flight down schooling Megan on the history of Crimson Tide football, making sure that she understood the high points (The Bear, Stallings, etc.) and the low points (NCAA sanctions, Shula, etc.), the etiquette of Alabama football (“Roll Tide”, for cheers – when in doubt just spell something, etc.), and the new order – the Saban era. Megan really took all of this in, and I know this because on Saturday when we woke up, she said, “You know, last night I was thinking about all of this and really, there are a lot of parallels between Alabama and Ohio State and the Cooper to Tressel eras compared to the Shula to Saban eras.” You see, this is just one of the many reasons that Megan and I get along so well.

The game was a blast, despite the fact that Alabama lost in overtime. The stadium was packed. The crowd was loud. Everyone was pumped. And Saturday, for the first time, Megan’s blood may have run Crimson rather than Scarlet. She yelled and screamed and high-fived and went hoarse in the process. You’ve got to love that kind of commitment.

I wish that I could hold your attention long enough to give you all of the details of our weekend – to share with you the stories of how we played with my little “nieces and nephews”, how we went to see Alycia in our p.j.’s,, how excited my dad was to say “R.T.R.” with Megan, and just how much fun it was to spend an entire 3 days with such a great friend. But I’ll spare you the details.

I titled this post the way I did because Sunday after church and after spending a bit of time with Megan and I, my oldest "niece" asked, "Are you two best friends or somethin'?" At first, I was taken a little aback by the question because I hadn't really used that term for anyone other than people that I had grown up with. To be honest, I didn't think I'd ever make a "best friend" in Ohio. But I quickly answered, "Yes. Yes, we are, Anna Leigh." And I begin to explain all the things that we liked to do together and all the many reason essentially why Megan and I ARE in fact best friends. I wanted her to understand that adults needed best friends for all of the same reasons that she as a 10 year old girl did.

The older I get, the more I realize just how rare it is to develop truly great friendships as an adult. There just seem to be wider gaps in commonality – jobs, life stage, geographic location, etc – and the busy-ness of life gets in the way. I consider myself very fortunate to have such a great relationship like the one I have with Megan. A friendship that was just made in the last 5 years. A friendship that is strong despite the differences in location, occupation, and marital status. A friendship that is easy – never dramatic, never judging, and still … never absent. A friendship that is quite literally a Godsend.

I pray that you have a Megan in your life, too!


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